Counseling

Counseling is something that goes on informally all the time between partners, friends, parents and children, husbands and wives, and it is important to understand that those close to you don't have to be counselors to talk to you about your illness and the emotions you are experiencing. They don't need to give you advice - the important thing is that they listen carefully and acknowledge the feelings you express.

Sometimes when you're undergoing a stressful and emotional time it's hard to talk to the people closest to you, who may also be very upset. You may find it easier to talk to someone outside your immediate circle. A trained counselor will be able to provide emotional support by allowing you to express your feelings and fears. A counselor's job is to help you see things differently, perhaps help you make decisions, not tell you what to do. Check with your hospital staff or ask your doctor for referrals.